10 Things to never allow a boyfriend do before the ring thinking event , ask vogue Okay, ladies. We all know there are a lot of fish in the sea, even though it can seem like the good ones aren’t biting a lot of the time. I have no doubt that looking for Mr. Right can seem like a tough prospect, but he’s probably out there Or at least Mr Close Enough. It’s one thing to lower your standards and temper your expectations a little to accommodate; you know, real-life people with strengths and flaws, and get away from your vision of some fantasy Prince Charming who’s absolutely perfect in every conceivable way. But it’s another to settle for some lazy douche, just because he has hair and a steady job and you’re pushing thirty. 1) Compare you to his mother : We all have met or know a friend, who has met this type of men, who say i want you to be just like my mum, laughing sha. the answer is we are fearfully and wonderfully made so why would i live your mothers life instead of mine . 2) Compare you to his ex-girlfriends : My reply is, If your ex was so great then why are we here , because you should still be with her. 3) Hang out with an ex : Never allow this . 4) Take you for granted: Most men feel like they are everyone's gold and diamond, but no matter what he feels, he is in his tiny world never allow him take you for granted. 5) Criticize you in public : No matter how right he is about an opinion or argument , bringing the public's knowledge to how wrong you are,about the issue is a no. 6) Make you give up on your dreams: Relationships are about compromise not sacrifice. 7) Make you feel stupid: Acting like he knows about everything is the first step to you being depressed. 8) Let him Control you: Look. Some guys don’t realize they’re doing this. It doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy; it’s probably just the way he was raised. Just tell him how you feel and discuss how he can work on it. If he makes the effort, great. Be patient. If not, dump 9) Not stand up for you: If your man can't defend you # Confused # the question is who would he defend. 10) Flirt with other women : And you don’t flirt with other guys, either. This is a game some people play in relationships and it’s toxic as hell. share your opinions and comments and remember to check out askvogue.com for your next event or call 08035885866 is free of charge. follow for upcoming stories why good men marry bitches