Relationships are amazing at the beginning you and your partner, would laugh and enjoy every slight thing called fun , But to every amazing relationship you have enemies who aren't human as you and i would expect, This enemies are our actions
1) Ego: This sweet enemy would always give you the impression you are too good for your partner, that you are doing your partner a favor by dating them and the most deceiving factor that your partner should always be at your beck and call and that you would always get someone better than them.
the simple truth is ego will take you through all the best relationships and end up dumping you in a miserable relationship for life.
2) Unforgiving : Holding grudges will always make your relationship seem depressed, reason being that you are happy and at another minute you are sad, due to the fact that you haven't let go completely of what your partner did to you, well the bad aspect of this is that your partner will get tired of being judged by you, for one mistake or the another you refused to forgive and one day they will get tired then bounce.
3) Fear of being vulnerable: Most people have the fear being vulnerable with their partner, we often don't want them to know how much we love them , appreciate or miss them , we are so busy hiding our emotions because we believe they would hurt us , but truth be told life is full of hurt is not a bed of roses , so why won't we open up our hearts to people who love us,
That is why when such relationships are over, we are depressed by regret mainly from what was amazing about our partners but most
4) Insisting on your way: Men are often guilty of this relationship enemy, they want even the slightest decisions made , signed and stamped by them , for some men that is their way of feeling respected by their partners and for your partner is your way of not valuing their opinions.
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