Not all playboys are the same. In fact, some of them are such good con artists that you wouldn't have seen it coming.

Does he talk a big game? Is he

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He calls late at night.

Does he only call you after 10pm to make last minute plans? And do those plans involve him coming over to your place?

Sorry, girl, but that has "booty call" written all over it!


He's always in a hurry.

Once he gets what he wants, he's not sticking around for some cuddle time or pillow talk.

He's already out the door and onto his next conquest...



He throws money around like it's nothing.

Does he try hard to impress you with his money by splurging on the most expensive bottle of Dom Pérignon and tipping the valet guy a hundred bucks?

If he's reckless with his spending, he's probably reckless in other aspects of his life as well, including relationships.


He's inconsistent.

Does he say one thing and do another? First he's talking about how the two of you need to plan a weekend getaway, then when you bring it up, he acts like he doesn't even remember!

When a guy has too many girls on speed dial, it can be hard for him to keep up...



He sends you flowers constantly.

Sure, flowers are a sweet gesture, but three bouquets in one week?

They say that when a guy sends you flowers, he's guilty of something...


He's a little too confident in himself.

It's one thing to have self-confidence, but when a guy is in love with his reflection, that's a sign that he's a little too cocky when it comes to the world.

And women, of course.


You don't know much about him.

He's all about getting to know you, but when it comes to him, he's a closed book.

What exactly is he trying to hide? And why haven't you met his friends or been over to his place?

He's hiding something...



He's extremely successful.

Not saying that all successful men are playboys, but having more money and toys allows men to do whatever they want!

And when you look at the long list of well-known playboys in history, they all happen to be wealthy and successful men.Well for Naija men they borrow money pose, still they do playboy



He's forgetful.

Because he's got so many women on rotation, it can be hard to keep all of his facts straight, even when he's a professional playboy.

So if he starts being extra forgetful or god forbid calls you by the wrong name, it's time to show him the door!



He's on the VIP list at every club in town.

He knows every promoter in town and is on every single list and can be seen at every VIP table on a Saturday night.

And funny how all of his "friends" at the table are girls...

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6. He tries to get physical too soon.

When a guy is really interested in getting to know you, he'll take his time because he wants to invest the time and effort into a real connection.

If he's trying to hop in the sack too soon, it's because he wants to conquer and move on!



He isn't genuine.

He smiles and laughs at everything you say, but you're not 100% convinced.

It's because he's got his mind elsewhere, always...



He always knows what to say.

He's a walking bible of Ryan Gosling quotes from The Notebook, and while you want to believe every word that comes out of his mouth, something tells you that it's just a little too rehearsed...



He dresses better than you do.

Whoa, no man is ever supposed to out dress his woman under any circumstances.

Besides, a guy who is too into his clothes will always put you second, along with the other women.



He seems too perfect.

Despite our fantasies and illusions when it comes to love, no one is perfect. That's just a fact of life!

So when you meet a guy who seems like he's absolutely perfect, and in some cases too perfect, then it's probably too good to be true.

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